Do I have the right to refuse to pay half of the soccer league fees? Can I say no to making her play during my time with her?

Yes and yes. Both are acceptable, unless the custody order insists that dad gets to decide these things, or that you are obligated to pay. consult...

Modification of Child Support

You cannot file a new one. You should simply seek to have the old one heard based on the delays caused by your ex.

Can my parents press charges against who I move in with?

If you move out before you are emancipated, your parents can report you a run away. Anyone hiding or keeping you could face trouble potentially....

Can 1 person be the Pres for an HOA Master Board & be an elected treasurer for the TOA that pays funds to Master?

See what the bylaws and HOA docs say regarding holding 2 positions. Otherwise, there is no apparent conflict unless the TOA is somehow adversary to...

The whole point of a lis pendens is to alert others that there is possible litigation involving the property to preserve it for later recovery. ...

Can an original order be changed and switched out without any record of that change having been made? If not, is that criminal?

If you cannot explain the situation, then you cannot get a proper answer.

Do the kids have to go with him if they don't want to

Yes. But you should go get the process started for formal custody and support orders. You can then work out a schedule that you can enforce, or ask...

Can someone please tell my why I have to file for guardianship of my own son in regards to any inheritance he might receive?

Not to sure who is telling you exactly what here. But since your child is underage, he cannot legally inherit anything yet under his own control....

Can she change the locks and take the children?

Technically no, she cannot. But she hasn't done anything that cannot be addressed in the divorce. he needs to proceed with the divorce and seek...

See above

There is a bit too much left out. How did step-dad get placed on your birth certificate in the first place? That required court action and usually...