Is withholding marital property division settlement payments a kind of theft?

Yes, that could be theft. yes, you can return to court and seek contempt and an order for payment.

I no longer wants to carry my father's last name. I'm 19 years old, what can I do to change it?

You can petition the court for a name change. The court may have a packet for you to use. Check there.

Am I entitled to half the worth of the house and property considering its in her mothers name. Can she legally make me leave

If your names are not on the deed, and not on the mortgage, then you do not have much if anything in the way of the house. Your payments may be...

Can I get custody or apply a Protective order? Is Protective order done by police first then I file with courts/clerk?

Nothing you cite will remove custody from mom. Nothing appears very different than when the court already decided that it would not give you joint...

Can I legally take my children to Florida?

No, you will not be arrested. But your safest bet is to get a court order of paternity, custody, and to allow a move away. It takes longer, but it...

Will i be automatically emancipated if i am married

No, you need to go to court for an order. http://www.virginiarules.com/virginia-rules/family-relationships-and-the-law

Could this be a felony domestic violence charge and would he spend time in jail?

Yes, that should be enough for the charge. And if he is convicted he could go to jail. But you should get a restraining order if you do not have...

Present it to the court. Using a paddle at all may be seen as extreme and ill advised. But, if it has been the norm since you were together, or...

Based on these and other facts, such as denied visits, can I request the court to transfer physical custody?

No one can say. We do not have all the facts. But if any of these situations existed before the order giving him custody, they will not likely be...

Eligibility and enforcement question. Do I need a lawyer at this point?

Yes, you probably need a lawyer. He is disputing the child is his, and that you can collect anything from him. So you have to litigate the issues,...