Can I legally take my children when I leave my wife?

It might be helpful to say what you shouldn't do. You should n't leave the state with the children and you shouldn't deny visitation without a...

What are the divorce rules in North Carolina?

You need an attorney. There are several NC firms that can help you likely for less than you can 'do it yourself'. However, based on your question...

Can I use for alienation of affection?

Possibly, This a complex enough situation that you will need to consult with a local family law attorney to get the answers and options you are...

I failed to appear for divorce court

That could be a good thing or a bad thing - most likely a bad thing!

Can I make monthly payments?

If you have an agreement, it depends on what your agreement says A properly drafted agreement should be very specific regarding who is responsible...

Shoplifting help? Have to go to court.

You need an attorney. You may be eligible for a court appointed or public defender. If not, you'll just have to suck it up and hire your own.

Can I stop child support?

If it is temporary the easiest solution would be for you to just give the money back to him.

If DSS is in your business you have way more to worry about than your kids grazing at will. If the children are properly fed there is nothing...

What if the kid has child support and wants it could she/he git it and could she/he move out and git there own home

Are you asking if the child can take the child support the parent receives and use that money to move out and get their own place? If so, NO.

Can I be forced into a separation if my wife is lying to me about possible reconciliation

You can't legally prevent a separation or a divorce but you don't have to sign a separation agreement. So she doesn't need to trick you to either...