Yes I have cheated on my husband in the past but not with an enlisted person (civilian) and He blames me for cheating ?

Sorry it is a little unclear - are you in the military?

Active duty service member marrying minor?

You need to check the state law where you both live and where you want to get married. That is going to carry the day, as the UCMJ only addresses...

It would help to know what service you are in. I am assuming Army?

He cannot extend you just to separate you. You can only be extended if they are going to court-martial you or if you voluntarily extend. I...

Is it to late to upgrade discharge after 15 years?

It is not too late; it just changes which board you apply to. I would recommend getting a lawyer to assist you.

What are the chances of getting an OTH upgraded?

Chances of a discharge upgrade are always slim; however, an OTH for just spice use is a little harsh. You have a shot. Hiring a lawyer to help will...

Can military with 20 years with a written letter to retire can lose pension if continued to serve but then convicted/discharged?

Is this person an officer or enlisted? And what is the service (army, navy, etc)? The answer depends on those facts

How often do people get arrested or a court-martial for fraudulent enlistment?

I wouldn't worry too much about it. The best thing you can do is always be truthful. The crime comes in when you knowingly make a lie, which it...

After death military investigation ?

It is normal for the military to conduct an investigation after a death. However, I wouldn't sign anything until you review it with a military...

There is definetely a process to get a discharge upgrade. A military lawyer would have to look at the papers and then they could tell you what the...