This is a class 3 misdemeanor so you will not be going to jail. Since you have a prior you should ask for a PJC or improper equipment to avoid...

Does she have a case? Can she sue the county and win?

Make sure she has all her ducks in a row as far as paying the speeding tickets and complying with the judgements. Are you sure the arrest was for...

The speeding tickets themselves will not go away, but the points will drop off of his insurance and drivers license after 3 years

Had single car accident North Carolina was injured and they did blood test for alcohol

Your admissions to Xanax and Marijuana could be used against you without a blood test. You need an experienced lawyer

You can certainly move out of state. However, there is likely an order for your arrest that will have to get dealt with at some point.

Other variables need to be considered. Your outcome will greatly depend on the district attorney that handles your case.

Will a suspended sentence be activated if you've absconded but never violated before?

You will be violated by your PO as an absconder. It is highly likely your suspended sentence will be activated

Should I hire a lawyer

Yes,. Hire a lawyer to achieve one of three results: 1. a dismissal, 2. A reduction to improper equipment or 3. A reduction to less than 10 miles...

Will information be shared with out of state mvd with charges of city code violation or exceeding the speed limit charges.

In my 24 years of experience city code violations are not reported the the Department of Motor Vehicles since they are not included in Chapter 20...

Can a volunteer Homeowners Association issue speeding tickets with fines paid to the HOA for a private road?

Not unless they are a duly sworn law enforcement officer.