This sounds like a very uphill battle. First, in WV, the damages available for trauma cases (you said this was an emergency surgery) are even more...

Lawyers can't reveal what client told them with few exceptions but does it also go the other way around?

You are free to divulge anything. However, if you divulge something your lawyer told you in confidence, you may risk waiving the attorney client...

Legal malpractice or sexual harassment?

You should probably contact the Office of Disciplinary Counsel. If he did this to you, he may be doing it to other people too. There are ethical...

Do I have to pay taxes on an estate account for a wrongful death lawsuit settlement?

The answer depends on the type of damages and how the Court apportions those damages (if at all) during the wrongful death proceeding. To be safe,...