Does VA have to Honor ID laws? Can he come take him? Immediate action that can be taken to protect him & award custody to me?

You need to see a family law immediately. They can help evaluate your case to determine if jurisdiction involving custody of your son is in...

How would i go about securing a lawyer in Virginia who specializes in this type of case?

You may want to consider contacting your local law enforcement office and request to speak to an investigator to see if they would be able to...

Is it illegal to live with him and not be married? Will it effect my case?

I agree that the fact that you live with your fiance is not illegal. The only way it could be "illegal" is if there is a provision in your order...

How do we establish paternity? If the child is his how do we go about getting custody due to the mother is not fit.

Once the child is born, your husband should seek an establishment of paternity through your local juvenile court. If your husband is found to be...

How should I deal with this?

Take the document you signed to a family law attorney who can evaluate whether or not your mortgage/sale of the house was addressed as a part of...

Both attorneys are correct. You need to send a letter to both the court and your ex-wife about your change of address. Even though you may have...

Should I fear the charges of violating the court order? Will the courts really allow him visitation again?

The other attorney is correct, that once the court order is entered both parties have to abide by its terms. If you don't the other party can file...

What do I need to do?

You need to discuss this matter with an attorney immediately. A lot depends upon whether or not you have a custody order in order to determine...

What are the legal steps I need to make to take my son to live in another country with me?

You definitely need to speak to an attorney who handles divorce and custody matters. Relocation cases are difficult and require someone...

What does a typical shared custody agreement look like for an 18 month old? Are there other alternatives?

Everyone is correct - there is no set or typical shared custody arrangement. I have seen them vary wildly - anything from splitting the week 4...