What is the best response to ongoing accusations which have involved the courts, etc?

Hire a lawyer and file a motion to amend custody.

Wait until the child is born and talk to a lawyer first. Feel free to call my office and set an appointment.

I did not conplete my 100 hours of community service but i have 74/100 finished what are the chances of getting an extension

Sounds like good cause to continue. Make sure you take a letter from your community service supervisor backing you up in case PO doesn't.

My husband and I just signed seperation papers on Friday. He drafted his seperation agreement and I took it to a lawyer.

If both of you signed it, he is going to have a hard time getting out of it. You should still hire a lawyer.

Making a Will in Virginia: Minimum amount of money left to adult oldest child to avoid contesting?

There is no amount you have to leave a child. Make sure you hire a competent lawyer to draft it.

I got seperated from my husband an year ago and live in a different state . Which state do I have to apply for divorce?

It's usually where you last resided, but if the other person waives personal jurisdiction it shouldn't be a problem.

Am I legally married or is my marriage void?

The only way to know is to ask an Ohio family law attorney.

Filed for an uncontested divorce in Virginia by publication. How long until judge signs final divorce decree, set to remarry?

Unfortunately, there is no time clock on these. The judge will sign when he or she is ready. Any marriage prior to entry of a final decree is void.

What type of visitation will my ex be given after he is released from prison?

You should hire a custody lawyer to file immediately.

How long does it take for a conviction to show up on your record

Convictions in Virginia cannot be expunged as already indicated. Good luck.