Do I have to continue paying for medical insurance for my wife? (soon to be ex)

You should definitely hire a lawyer to represent you as soon as possible. It is dangerous to remove her from health insurance at this point....

My wife wants a divorce. We have been married 3 yrs. We signed a year lease, but has an agreement with the owner to break it.

You should seek either a local family lawyer or a therapist to help you deal with this situation. I did not see any question you wanted answered.

Yes, there is a serious conflict. In fact, a GAL who is allowing a Judge's son to intern should not be appointed to any of that Judge's cases.