By hat is impossible to answer on is site. Talk to her attorney and they would have an idea.

How do I ensure that my siblings are getting the care they need? Whether that's being in my custody or not?

I think the GAL gave you good advice. If you move to VA and can provide a good home, then you can win.

Father of my child refuses to pay child support even though dna test has been done proving paternity

Without going to court to enforce the order, there is little you can do.

Can my child/support arrears from Juvi/Domestic court be changed by a Circuit Court judge during the dissolation in court?

Wthe circuit court can not back date a reduction to the original order, unless it is a direct appeal.

Can child support take your entire check, for arrears especially if the kids are full grown?

There is a cap to the percentage a garishnent can take.

You need to file a petition for custody In the court in the county in which they live.

How do I keep my children’s grandfather away from them.? I have asked him to stop but he continues to contact them.

You could have him charged with harrassing phi e calls, but with him in NY it would be difficult to arrest him, since the state usually does not...

Can I move back to my mom’s house?

Depends. Was there a court changing custody, because if so, it may need to be changed if dad does not agree

Gaining custody back?

Yes, you need o go to court to change the custody order.

Can I legally sell my house and home goods without my husband's permission ?

You can sell you really netted the in the house, but who is going to buy it. You can resolve this via divorce or a particition suit.