How to seek free advice?

You need to repost with a question; not simply posting two words.

You need to hire a local experienced attorney to help you. (You know the answer to your question.)

Your friend is risking being arrested just before she boards the ship. She needs to contact a local experienced criminal defense attorney right away,

You need to hire a dui attorney to investigate all possible defenses and go to trial. The charge won’t simply be dismissed on the scenario you...

Would I still have to pay restitution to a person who is now incarcerated for a very serious crime?

If the court ordered you to pay restitution, you must. It does not matter whether the person is now in jail or not.

Does getting in trouble with an officer without arrest or jail goes on their record ?

If there was no arrest (just a warning) there is likely no record on his criminal record. BUT there may be a report with the county police...

What are the odds of getting a traffic citation in the mail at this point for passing a school bus?

None of us have a crystal ball but odds are, the more time that passes, the more unlikely you will be served with a “ticket”.

Your husband needs to speak to his attorney who has a better idea of the consequences.

how do I get my gun rights back if I have my other rights back. Or if. Want it expunged can I do it from this state.?

You cannot expunge a VA conviction under VA law. Since your conviction was under NJ law, you should contact a NJ to see if you can get it expunged...

I’m in Virginia

Attorney Cloud has given you an excellent link. Generally the Governor's Pardon gives back your voting rights and the right to sit on a jury but...