I reccieved my second pot possession charge in a different state then the first. Is it considered a first offense in the new?

Sometimes the vagueness of the out of state record prevents the Commonwealth from enhanced punishment. In my opinion, you are clearly not eligible...

What's my possibility of not goin to jail on my 1st probation violation

Samantha covered it. You need a lawyer who knows the likely behavior of your sentencing judge to answer your question.

What could happen to me?

Your "possible punishment" is 1-20 years incarceration if convicted by a jury. Your likely punishment is a reduction to a misdemeanor (or better)...

Under the interstate compact, Florida can suspend you there for a Virginia suspension here. It's all about information sharing between the states....

Not much evidence is needed to bring a charge. Only probable cause is required, and that is a very low standard. Much more than probable cause is...

Can a judge revoke a bond because the client asked for a continuance

I have seen this happen before, but only in cases where the defendant has been given multiple continuances for attorney issues in the past. ...

Can I get off with no jail time but have other punishment?

It sounds like you are charged with possession with intent to distribute. There are first offender dispositions in the Code, but you need to have...

My friend is in custody being charged with failure to appear.

Yes they can hold him legally. But that sounds like a legitimate reason to offer a judge when asking for bond.

Will a court appointed attorney be able to provide me with what I need?

The question is not "court appointed vs. retained." It is "effective and attentive vs. inept and apathetic." Just because the lawyer is appointed...

You need a good attorney to help you get your arms around this thing now. Assuming you actually did push the officer (and they can prove it), you...