As durable power of attorney for an elderly friend, can I draw up papers naming someone to take over responsibility if needed?

You have to have an attorney review the document. It's likely that you can't modify this agreement.

My wife's sister passed with no will, subsequently her husband passed with no will,

You will need a local attorney to handle the probate of this estate. They can tell you the outcome. There are laws and rules that govern this...

Are nursing homes obligated to contact the family members about a residents health condition or passing?

It depends if your name was on record, and/or if you had a power of attorney or other legal document with them. It's always best to hire an...

What will happen?

It depends. This case sounds like you need an attorney. You should contact a local defense attorney to protect your rights.

Is it considered discriminatory to give salary increases only to those that merit it or must I give raises to all?

It depends. This case sounds like you need an attorney. You should contact a local employment attorney to protect your rights.

On the court papers being delivered to the person that is being sued, what info is on the paper?

It depends. This case sounds like you need an attorney. You should contact a local defense attorney to protect your rights.

I am paid salary plus commissions. Can my employer deduct pay for days he would not let me work due to his religious beliefs?

You need to be paid for time worked. This case sounds like you need an attorney. You should contact a local attorney to protect your rights.

Can you be fired over the phone

Short answer: yes. Long answer: it depends on your location, employment terms, contract, etc. Where are you located? Where was the work done? ...

Are outstanding bills required to be paid when the deceased has named beneficiaries on his non probate assets?

It's likely that you will need a local attorney to answer this for you and possible represent you in this matter.

You will need a local attorney to help you with this matter.