For using his card to buy food and pay electric? He gave me no money or anything

If you are an authorized user on the credit cards you would not get in trouble. If you used the credit cards to support your children you would...

Do I have to notify the courts of this move? I have moved from VA to MD and I did not have to notify anyone

depends on what the order says. If the order is silent on whether you are required to notify the father then you are not required to, but it may...

So she has deliberately disobeyed court order and doesn't let me have him for my weekend.,holidays nothing!!!

If she is disobeying a court order file a Petition for Contempt. You may also want to consider filing a Motion to Modify Custody as well.

Can they take custody from me if there no grounds for it

It appears that a hearing has already been held, but you are awaiting the court's decision. If this is correct, once you receive the court order...

Is there a way I can recoup/recover the overpayment of my child support?

You should be able to see the total payments made an whether there is a deficit or excess amount paid for child support through the child support...

I agree with David. Since you have been separated for more than a year he can fine for divorce and be granted a divorce (including any other...

HOW I get custody back from grandmother I signed over custody to in the first ppace

If there is a court order giving grandma custody and she is unwilling to agree to rescind the order you will have to file for a modification of...

HOW I get custody back from grandmother I signed over custody to in the first ppace

If there is a court order giving grandma custody and she is unwilling to agree to rescind the order you will have to file for a modification of...

Might I be obligated to pay back the agency that is providing the welfare funds to my spouse? Will I be hit for child support?

I agree with David's response. I would add depending on what the agreement states and if she tries to contest the agreement (successfully) that...

Should and how do I ask the judge to dismiss this case anyway?

Depends on a lot more information. Such as when was the dna test done, why was it done, when was the child support complaint filed, etc., to have...