Can he start his summer visitation whenever he wants?

If he does not respond to you as to his and the kids wereabouts, it may be worth filing for emergency custody.

Can i still pick him up .. Do i need a police with me do i need my court papers

Per usual David is correct. I would add that short term there may not be as quick as a resolution as you may want. Perhaps speaking to the father...

As a custodial parent, how far am i legally allowed to relocate in state without jeapodazing custody should the dad object

Without the consent of the other parent, there is no exact mileage (or science) that can be provided. It depends on the particular facts of the...

You need to get the police involved, and file for an emergency hearing if the other parent is denying you access to the child and has left the...

How long can the process take

I am switching the practice area to immigration so you can obtain a better response.

What should we do

Depending on whether you feel the child is in immediate harm you can try to reach out to the mom and talk to her and sherif she will return the...

How can I find a lawyer that specializes in interstate family law? Specific states in question are MD, NJ and VA.

I agree with counsels response. Further note that attorneys cannot solicit clients in this forum.

Do i have to send her over?

I agree with Ms. Rouse's response. I would add that just because you have final decision making said authority does not allow for you to change...

Can my childrens mother tell me my children cannot come visit if it is court appointed?

Unless the order states something about your living conditions and/or provides her with sole legal or tie breaker authority no. If the order...

What options does a parent have when the other parent decides to relocate further away?

It possible may be enough to have a judge modify either the custody arrangement or the location of the exchange. It depends on the judge you get...