If he files for contempt and can prove you willfully disregard the court order, the court could penalize you, yes.

In court no. However this doesn’t stop the parents on their own to consider it.

You can delay it a few months, but not indefinitely.

There is certainly an argument to be made that reimbursement has been waived.

You can ask for it to be temporary suspended, but it does not mean it will be granted.

Go to the courthouse the protective order/ peace order case was in.

If your wife's name is on the deed of the house the answer is not with out her consent. If your wife's name is not on the deed, you may be able...

If it happens regularly (every year or more) yes. If not, then maybe/maybe not.

You may need to file a motion to reconsider and/or motion to vacate, depending on much more needed information.

If a person violates a protective order it is possible that they can go to jail.