If you want alimony to continue longer then it is currently ordered to be paid and the order calls for alimony to be modifiable (possibly), then...

Have the office of child support enforcement agency be involved, they have the ability to administratively suspend his license.

If the court is involved, yes, child support is until the child is 18, unless the child is still in high school, then until graduation or until 19,...

No, you would need to file a motion to modify, serve the other side and go through the process similar to that of the original custody process.

Yes, you need to follow the order until, if and when, the order is changed or you two agree to something different.

YOU can file for just custody, but there is nothing to stop your spouse from filing for divorce at the same time.

I am sorry for your lose. Yes an agreement at the time of the divorce or a decision by a judge at a time of divorce related to property would...

If the weekend starts on Thursday then the 1st weekend would be the 1st Thursday of the month. Good luck.

The litigation would be between your fiancée and the mother not you. You are not a party so there should be no reason why you would need an attorney.

He cannot violate the order for reaching out to you since the order is against you not him. There is no order stating he cannot reach out to you...