Retain an attorney ASAP. Accept anything she is offering but continue to ask for more time and when she says no ask for explanations.

If the father is willing to take the child yes. Otherwise, the court cannot force him to take the child.

There is. It is call the Maryland Rules and the Family law Articles. However, it is written as attorneys and judges being the target audience.

Depends on the county and the judge.

It depends on the situation when you are actually looking to file a modification. If you are looking to file it now, you first will need to show...

usually about 2-4 weeks from the time you file it.

Yes, you could file a petition for contempt and/or motion to modify depending on the facts at hand and what is specified in the current court order.

Files a petition fort contempt and/or motion to modify.

whoever is signing over the title to the other party loses any interest/rights/equity to the property.

30 days from the date of service if it is reopening the case and you were served with a summons.