What do I do

There seems no likelihood that the mother will bring the child to you. Therefore you have to wait until you are off parole. Then, you will need...

Are any or all of these grounds to vacate the judgment? How can I request a judgment be vacated? Should I have a legal counsel?

None of your reasons indicate ground for overturning the default. You might call up the attorney who filed suit and tell him your status., or, not.

Should I ignored it? The money I been sending should be getting deducted from what I owe them?

If you have nothing, you cannot pay anything. When you get a job, you may want to see a lawyer about your debts.

Is there a statue of limitations. The plaintiffs lived in the house less than a year.

Check to see what insurance you had at the time. Find the policy and see if there is a disclaimer for lead paint injury. If not, contact that...

How will we use?

Do not. Throw it out! Clean up and forget about it.

Default because husband didn't respond

You are right in being suspicious that an Order of Default may not be in your best interest. But if there is no other choice, you need a lawyer.

What can I do legally and what kind of attorney will I need to pursue this?

Document, document & document. Then wait. Alternatively, shop for a new mortgage. Also, I have never heard of a case that a creditor does not...

You need other plumber assessments. You may have to spend money to discover and prove the problem. But if it was caused by the first plumber,...

What should I do to get my money back?. I have done everything they ask me to do..I need a lawyer..

Google: "IRS tax refund identity fraud".

Decedent's Spousal Property Interest

I agree with Mr. Valkenet, with the emphasis that the first thing you need is to gather all the paper and take to a lawyer ASAP.