You could call the Judge's law clerk and ask when you might expect a decision.

Get a new bank. If things are as you say they are, the bank is not doing its job.

Why? You do not say why the "situation was hostile".

You can call the court and ask why it has not been dismissed.

Does your landlord belong to a criminal enterprise? If yes, get out of there. If no, get out of there. Also, you can call the police just as...

If she has left, change the keys and save her stuff. If she hasn't left, file a writ of detainer is she has no lease.

$2,000 was processed. Why did you not just repay it? You cannot take advantage of a mistake and keep the money, just because you originally...

Since the father has a lawyer, get your own lawyer ASAP.

If you believe it is possible for the 2 of you to reach an agreement as to what s going to happen in the divorce, your best bet is a Separation...

A "stet" is for criminal matters. You can ask for a postponement at your family law hearing.