Verbal abuse

It is very unfortunate that opposing counsel is abusive and insensitive. Suing her is not a helpful remedy. I would, as suggested below,...

Exclusive use of a property

Is she agreeable to those terms? That is an agreement you can reach, but I would recommend you consult with an attorney about having your agreement...

My divorce papers say my ex has to refinance or sell the marital home by January of 2013. He didn't. Can I make him buy me out?

From your question, the house has negative equity, so there is nothing to "buy out." The home has no value. If he could refinance to get you off...

I have not filed for a divorce yet. Do I go to the local court and filed or go threw a lawyer?

While some cases are handled without a lawyer, I strongly recommend you consult with a lawyer and see what the issues are, how complex they are,...

No you cannot. It is easier to just refile the case and serve him. You may wish to consult an attorney who can assist you.

You can always discuss reconciliation- that is obviously a personal not a legal issue. However, reconciliation takes two to agree and want the same...

Who is allowed in at mediation ?

If the case is in court, and this is a court-ordered settlement conference, the attorneys usually participate. There are times when there is child...

Does the first party to file for a divorce look better in court?

The first party to file does not look "better" to the court from the mere fact of instituting the proceeding. Rather the court makes the decision...

Can a lawyer in USA file a divorce against my spouse on my behalf, if I am outside USA?

I agree. The divorce action can be filed against your spouse where he resides, but your personal appearance may be necessary.

If my wife files for a divorce and I never show up in court will it be granted

It can be granted in your absence, if she submits the evidence necessary to support it.