What can i do to rectify this issue.

You may be able to just explain the situation but I recommend speaking with an attorney to make sure you do it the best way possible. Good luck.

My wife sent form I-130 for me and we received I-797 note of action. Should I send form I-485 now?

It depends on what the notice of action says. If it only trlls you the file has been transferee then you will have to wait until the i-130 is...

1) Can they apply for re-entry permit while they are outside the US in their local country's consulate?

They have to apply for the reentry permit in the US. But at this point if possible it may be better to come back, get citizenship and then leave.

Can I get an Immigrant Visa if stayed in US ilegally?

Yes, you can. The fact that you were in the US for over a year did mean that you would be denied a visa por 10 years. However those 10 years have...

Do you think we can go forward with the application?

The opinion is that you need to consult with a second attorney. It is unclear if he needs protection, how he entered the second time and what his...

Ead received, can i change employer?

It is not rrisky at all. If your EAD is though your I-485 then you can work for any employer you want.

I wanted to ask you if I can get back to the US on a J-1 visa and later have it converted to the H-1B?

I agree, these are too many questions and each answer depends on many variables, you need to conslt someone who can go over your case thoroughly.

I am advised the wait is over eight years, can this process be reduced with an Immigration Attorney and estimate of costs.

There is no way tos peed the process, but there may be other options for your son to be here while he waits. You should consult with an attorney...

you need to gather any documentation showing that at the moment you came here you intended to return. Things such as return ticket, lease from back...

Can I travel to Spain with a conditional residence?

There is no problem traveling with a conditional visa. Traveling is allowed and does not affect the greencard at all as long as you travel for less...