When calculation of presentence ponts in Va, are the points different when firearms are involved? I think It's 10 points vs. 12

This is something to discuss with your lawyer. Far more information is needed than can be, or should be, discussed in a forum such as this.

What happens if the victim does not show up?

The absence of the victim at a preliminary hearing may or may not be important. This is the kind of thing your daughter should be discussing with...

What are my options when being charged with possession of marijuana?

It sounds like you committed a crime and got caught. The government to may or may not be able to prove it. You may or may not be granted the...

Court for shoplifting...continued to May (6 months) and dismissed if I'm on good behavior

Good behavior means good behavior. Don't break the law...any law. Engaging in illegal conduct is not being of good behavior.

What should i do? I got my first misdemeanor

You need to be represented by an experienced and respected Virginia Criminal Defense Attorney with a proven track record of success.

I got 2 misdemeanors: Possession Under 21, and Public intoxication, I also received a false ID charge, will I be drug tested??

Maybe, maybe not, but if you are obeying the law, what difference does it make? In fact, if I were your counsel I would instruct you to...

Why would a police officer arrest an 18 year old for underage drinking

A police officer would arrest and 18 year old for underage drinking because it is illegal.

Do apology letters make any difference?

This is something to discuss with your lawyer. You should not make any admissions without discussing it with your lawyer.

Lawyers from anywhere in Virginia are able to travel to represent clients, so you aren't limited to attorneys in Bland.

Of course a Reckless Driving charge is a violation of your probation. Any conviction is a violation.