I have received three Notice of Actions (Form I-797C)– one for form I-130, one for I-485 and another for I-765.

Since you filed concurrently, there is NO FEE for the I-765

No, you will not be able to adjust to a F1 student visa from a pending asylum application. Although you would not be accruing unlawful status...

How can I change my name and gender marker ?

Contact the Whitman-Walker Name & Gender Clinic for help with this: https://www.whitman-walker.org/event/name-gender-change-clinic-3/ Each state...

I would highly recommend, more so than normal, that you work with an experienced asylum attorney for your case. There is a very important...

Possibly, but maybe not. It all depends on the history and specifics of his case. Best to have an in depth consult with an experienced immigration...

How we can apply for Asylum?

You have to be in the United States to apply for asylum. There may be other ways for you to immigrate to the US though, especially since your...

You can apply, but that doesn't mean you'll be eligible. You will have to overcome the one year filing deadline, and there are only a few...

Can I move out of the us while my green card process is going on?

Are you waiting for your green card application to be adjudicated? If so, you can have it expedited based on your husband's orders.

What should I do?

Extended review likely means that there is a background check or something similar pending. I've been hearing of more asylee AOS applications...

If you are listed as a derivative on your spouse's I-589, and s/he requested by checking the box that you be included, then you would be eligible...