You can certainly go for your H1B stamping. The U-visa will take between 3 to 5 years before it is approved.

Can i apply for H4 extension from india to enter US now?

Yes if your spouse has a current H-1B visa.

Traveling in and out of the US on the ESTA visa waiver program? Days counted?

The 90 days are only counted for time in the US. Each trip into the US starts a new 90 day period.

The correct answer is no. You can certainly provide a list of applications that have been filed if you wish. That was USCIS can see that you are...

Can I mail the affidavit of support to the US Embassy in Juarez Mexico instead of going back there?

You should follow the instructions given. Your husband must take the affidavit of support back to the Embassy as directed.

Employment authorization card

If this is your first employment card that you are requesting there is no filing fee. You can also ask for a fee waiver in some cases.

What happens after a change of status denial

You need to hire a lawyer to help. It is not a negative on your record but you must answer questions correctly.

She is planning to visit India - Can she travel currently?

Your company's attorney can answer these questions. But yes she can travel.

Ds-260 and ds-230 forms.

You will not have to pay or file a new form. It was valid when you first filed and paid.

Is there something similar to "trespass to chattels" in the Illinois criminal statutes, which does not involve moral turpitude?

Yes there certainly is. This is where you reach out to an immigration lawyer and a criminal defense lawyer in person in Illinois to have specific...