What does one need to get in place if a spouse is disabled and is unable to even sign?

You need to meet with an attorney right away. It is not clear if your spouse is mentally incapacitated or not so it may be that a power of...

Zero contact from the executor of my mother's estate.

Obviously the soft approach is not working. It is time to hire an attorney to inquire at least informally. One year in the probate process is not...

Based on your facts, you don't have any grounds to sue the trustee. It just so happens that a person stole money from you and incidentally...

My father had a several million dollar estate he put in revocable trust. It has been a year since his death.Not a word to me.

Have you contacted her or her attorney? I would not sit by and let time pass....it is probably time to be proactive and have your own attorney...

I openend a tragedy fund for my nephew at my bank. Now his mom is sending me letters from an attorney threatening to file suit.

I am not clear what a "tragedy fund" is (is it where you solicited or contributed funds on your own for another person?)...but there is not enough...

Does a POD individual savings acct transfer to the beneficiary exclusively, or go to a living trust.

I agree that the POD designation will likely control.

How to write an attorney to ask about decease unclaimed assets

Your question is not very clear however if you are asking if you can write to an attorney who you think is handling an estate about an inheritance...

What type of legal document will I have to give my sister for to make medical and personal decision upon my mother in my absence

I believe you are asking about decision making for your mother? Your mother would have to have signed a power of attorney (perhaps both a Health...

Can personal judgements be attached to a beneficiaries trust?

It is certainly possible. It depends on the type of trust, trust language and the type of creditors. This person needs a trust attorney to assist.

In Oregon, is it legal for my probate attorney to petition the court to become the estates personal representative?

If you have an attorney you should direct questions to him/her. If you are not happy with your attorney you should consider new counsel.