I am the oldest of 5 am I the decision maker in prep of death and assets?

Short answer is NO. Being oldest doesn't mean anything. Your father needs to take care of his estate planning.

Whats the best course of action, i havent filed taxes in 5 years?

Can't say without knowing more. The first step would be to have the returns prepared and filed, then you can set up a payment plan. Not filing is...

I agree with the other attorneys- you need to see the will. A verbal promise is not a will.

Can we still invoice/collect payment after my dad's death?

Sounds like you have a solid reason to ask for the money. I would send a bill. Assuming you are the executor or administrator.

You put in the name of the person you are renouncing in favor of -meaning who you want to be administrator or next named executor. I've never...

Is deceased fathers(2013) estate responsible for deceased Mother's(2018) estate Medicaid lien?

If property went to mother's estate (even if it was not actually completed - meaning deeded or transferred) it would be in mother's name and...

Who should the check be made payable to for my father's estate?

You certainly need to consider working with an attorney. Usually checks made payable to someone who is deceased can be cashed by the administrator...

In the will, the estate is bequeathed to multiple family members. Most have passed. Who receives the estate?

Note - you should contact a DE attorney. But generally the answer would depend on how the will is worded, so without seeing it you can't get a...

I am executer of my mothers will I inherited her house my drug addicted brother lived in house for 6 months can charge him rent?

Shorty answer is yes - if someone does not own a house (or only owns it partially) they would owe rent to the estate.

What you do with your property is your business - if you are thinking about a divorce you need to speak to a family law attorney so you know your...