Do I need to return my son to his mom or even show up to court?

your case involves complicated relocation issue and you should really consult with an attorney who handles that type of work.

Can I drop a 3 year pfa?

Yes you can do it by agreement. Have an attorney draft the agreement and have all parties sign it.

You should file a custody petition and have an order in place. Without an order no one has custody. Contact a local attorney for help.

If me and my husband get divorced and he agrees to sign off on house, will i have to refinance the home?

You can agree to refinance the house within 5 years. You can be very creative with settlement agreements but you should consult with an attorney to...

How long to get final divorce decree after equitable distribution?

Usually only takes a month. Speak to a local attorney.

Can a binding arbitration of personal items in divorce be appealed after being signed by a judge?

You should really consult with an attorney as it is difficult issue you have. The arbitration was binding and you may not have any recourse. Also...

Can my wife and I drop the court ordered support and just agree on a amount between us?

Yes. Both of you can agree in a stipulation that the current support order shall be suspended and if there is any payment due to mother it shall...

I have a petition for special relief to defend involving withholding apl to me until equitable distribution.

not sure what your question is as you are talking about so many legal issues. You should really consult an attorney regarding these issues.

Can I take my son to preschool while he is here?

You should file for custody right away in Pennsylvania. This would preserve your jurisdiction. Usually you can chose your own daycare provider. ...

My wife took the children out of the house two weeks and won't let me see the children, what should I do?

File for emergency custody. See a local attorney for help.