What papers do I need to file?

Contact the court clerk. The clerk will know what papers to file, when, the fees involved, etc.

What if the other party has no interest in court ordered mediation...

If the case is in court, ask the court to order mediation. If they refuse to attend then, they risk contempt charges.

Hire the mediator four years post divorce?

why would there be a conflict? The main thing is convincing the other side. If you like the mediator, they may think the mediator favors you and...

How can my Attorney drop my case without sending a Notice of Withdrawal of Attorney of Record.?

Is this a discrimination case? What court is it in? Did you file an EEOC claim? Lawyers should withdraw and file accordingly. But unethical...

Do I respond to a notice of appointment of arbitrator ?

To answer one would need more information. Generally, if you are an unrepresented party, arbitration is faster, less expensive and less...

Given no money and the difficultly of sueing a lawyer is you aren't a lawyer, you should hire a lawyer for a flat fee to negotiate a settlement. Or...

First, if your lawyer is white and you are a person of color, DC's Office of Disciplinary Counsel won't do a thing. They ignore ethics complaints...

Mediation must be voluntary and self determined. Which means in general, you can't be hurried, prodded, cajoled, etc into a settlement. But...

Private company or government? The real issue here, in my opinion, is whether the real underlying issue is a ADA violation, failure to...

What can I do?

Ask them to mediate the issue.