Can my husband still make medical decidions for his aunt if he cant see poa??

Being Executor of her Will has nothing to do with medical decisions while she is alive. He should speak with an Elder Law attorney for guidance.

How do I go about getting my name on the deed for my house? Do I even want to be on the deed to my house?

An outright transfer would almost certainly not be the best solution so definitely speak with an Elder Law attorney to discuss options.

I agree with my colleagues about sufficiency of the information provided. However, I think for something of this nature you should bring all...

My aunt has dementia can she change executor of her will ?

I agree with my colleague. Seek help from the local area agency on aging.

How do we get rid of a poa?

If your aunt still has capacity she can create a new POA and terminate the old one. If she doesn't have capacity you will need to speak with a...

Do I open an estate account as Executrix of the estate?

I agree with my colleagues. Speak with a California probate attorney.

How xan a 97 year old lady with dementia who cant fo her banking give poa?

As my colleague stated, capacity is required to grant an agency under a POA. Your husband should consult an Elder Law Attorney immediately.

What can I do if my brother has possession of all of our recently deceased parents & is refusing to talk about who gets what?

You must speak to a probate attorney to speak about opening an estate for your last deceased parent as Administrator to get control.

How can I get a copy of my deceased father's accidental life insurance policy?

Your question omits many facts needed to advise you properly but I would say that if your father had a spouse at the time of his death that spouse...

Can my stepfather control my money and overall life?

This does sound pretty unreasonable ... although I doubt it would rise to child abuse. I would say to speak with your mother to have her husband...