Do I need an attorney present?

Yes, you should absolutely have an attorney present. Best of luck.

I have a preliminary hearing end of the month and just trying to get some advice.

You should contact a criminal defense attorney to schedule a consultation.

I was arrested in Sonoma County for a DUI If I accept informal probation will Ca. notify my home state ?

This question is best able to be answered by the attorney that represented you. You should contact him/ her to inquire. Best of luck.

Yes, you can go to jail for assaulting a child. You should schedule a consultation with a criminal defense attorney. Best of luck.

Is there an alternative to jail for violating probation?

You are in a tough spot, hire an experienced criminal defense attorney. Best of luck.

How would i got about getting sole physical custody of my Child?

File for sole custody in the county where the child resides (if he has lived there for at least 6 months). Best of luck.

How do get my child support lowered or cancelled with me and ex having verbal 50/50 joint custody?

File for a Child Support modification, at the hearing the custody arrangement will be discussed and that should help you out. Best of luck.

What petition can be filed if parent doesn't return child to legal gaurdianship

You will likely need to file a Contempt Petition. Consult an experienced Child Custody attorney for further guidance. Best of luck.

I am being being tooken to court for an overpayment of child care for when my kids father was in and out of the home

You need to consult an attorney for a consultation as more information is needed. Best of luck.

Yes, you can be extradited from surrounding states. Hire an experienced criminal defense attorney to represent you in this matter. Best of luck.