Can FAMILY court rule on the same matter AFTER a verdict has been reached and while this matter is pending appeal?

Yes. The new non payment issues can can be heard while the old ones are on appeal. The easiest way to stay outa jail is to start paying what you...

Is anyone familiar w/ the NY statutes on sexual assault/rape from 1980, or does anyone know where/how to locate these statutes?

You can hire a lawyer. Or go to the county law library. Or both.

How much prison time do you think he will do?

The stakes are pretty high as a second felony offender. If he's not willing to take the case to trial, the right lawyer might still be able to...

Will I?

The Bill of Particulars won't have witness testimony. It simply details how the prosecutor will prove the case. Unless the DA's office is generous...

You can try, but it's extremely unlikely. Expect your lawyer to require the money upfront, no personal checks.........

What will he serve for total jail time??

If he gets "good time" he'll serve 4 of the six months in jail. If he violates probation when he gets out, he could go to state prison.

How many years he will be in the jail? Is this possible if he can only get a probation instead of sentenced in jail ?

It's hard to tell exactly how long because the post-rockafellar guidelines are all over the place. His lawyer will need to go over his criminal...

Will someone offer some help

You should consult with a lawyer who handles criminal appeals to see if there are issues relating to the sufficiency or weight of the evidence.

What can I do about this situation? I had no specific intent to steal their service.

You were in a bar drinking beer & eating food that you didn't pay for. You also didn't observe any of the people you were with pay the tab either....

Is there anyway him or I can get his parole transferred to where I am so he can live with me?

This is almost entirely up to his parole officer. Give her a call, ask nicely, & hope for the best.