Is a lawyer really necessary?

The fact you have to ask the question should tell you something.

Can a person hire their own attorney to represent them if they feel the ADA is not doing a good job?

The prosecutor isn't your puppet.......

Do I need a lawyer

Yes..........................................

Your chances are much better if you retain local counsel.

I currently have an ACD already and I just received a UPM and a speeding ticket. I'd like to know what might happen?

The DA will probably re-open the ACD if it's in the same county. You should exercise your right to counsel.

What is the procedure to get an order of evicton for our 27 year old son?

You can retain counsel to handle this for you.

Will it help me in alimony court if my husband has a baby on the way with another women

You can find the maintenance calculator here: https://www.nycourts.gov/divorce/calculator.pdf

How long after CPS removes your children should you have court

It sounds like you were in court for the removal so the only court date you're entitled to at this point would be the trial.

No.......................................

It's not clear if you're still going through administrative proceedings or if your case was adjudicated in Supreme Court. Either way, there are...