Counsel fees in Divorce after settlement

It is unlikely. Putting up a fight is not the same as filing a frivolous lawsuit/motion.

Counsel fees for broke spouse

It depends. You may be able to get some attorney fees from your spouse if they are the monied spouse.

If you have invested large amount of money into project but it isn't consider a small claims, where do i go from here?

If you are over the dollar amount for small claims you need to file in supreme court.

Are legal fees and attorney fees paid by guilty party ie vandalism case

The Judge cannot force someone to plead guilty. If there is a conviction you will have a stronger civil case if you sue the person who vandalized...

Is my ex responsible for back childcare?

You may want to have an attorney take a look at the order and discuss the change in daycare. It is unclear whether or not he had a valid objection...

Do i need an Estate lawyer

A lot depends on whether he had a will. It would be worthwhile to consult with an attorney about the matter.

You would have to sue her for defamation. That is a civil action, not a criminal case.

Can we change visitation without lawyers? Will it effect anything for future custody/support?

You should consult with an attorney if you are doing something that will effect custody/visitation.

How do you get a child's law guardian changed

This will not be a basis from which to have a different attorney assigned to represent the child.

Can my ex stop child support because she's going into college?

If your child is still under 21 then he would need to go to court if he is seeking a modification of the order.