How would a divorce work in terms of the home and finances?

How the home is split will depend in many factors. You should consult a local attorney and discuss this with them.

Cease and desist letter

You could call the attorney. It probably will not do any good. The attorney is working for the person complaining. I would do whatever I could...

The judge said yes the board said yes can they appeal again. It's bean dragged out for almost two years.

Yes they can appeal again. The good news is that they have to pay this time. If they are successful you do not have to pay them back.

Does a person have the right to destroy the work carried out if they are not paid?

No you may not. File a lien and bring an action to recover the amount due.

If i am the remainder of the life estate property, can i rent out a room of the property?

Not as a landlord. You do not have that right while the person holding the life estate is alive.

Do I have any recourse as my house is now going through a short sale due to Mr. Peters false claims?

You do not say who Mr. Peters is. It sounds like you may have recourse against him. You should consult with a local attorney. After they review...

How much might I be compensated? Also the porch railing height is well below the building code.

There are many variables that will effect the outcome of your recovery. You should retain a local attorney.

CAN I ask state insurance CARRIER for ADVANCE LOAN or my lawyer

Your lawyer can not loan you money. The carrier will not advance on the settlement for fear that you could back out after receiving the money. ...

If the car is part of the estate the executor can take the car, sell it and pay off the note. If there is anything left that would be split among...

Will I lose my home if I sign or accept any money

Sign NOTHING until you consult with an attorney. You should see an attorney right away. Time may very well be an issue.