Private Student Loan cosigner is suing me. he's my father. his divorce states he must pay for my college tuition. what do i do?

Counterclaim as 3rd party beneficiary to the agreement for breach of contract.

What is the first thing I need to do to get ready for divorce?

Pragmatically, raise enough money to hire a capable attorney who will be able to represent you up through a trial if necessary. Everything else...

Violation of parole.

Your question is contradictory factually in at least 2 places and unclear, except for the end. Yes, your "friend" can be arrested for identity...

Former prisoner with knowledge of an identity theft crime.

Depends; probably; no. In any event, this sounds like a bogus inquiry.

Check your terms of probation. It will state what s/he can do. Typically with a drug abuser, there is a specific statement that you can be sent...

If you have completed half of your probation and then get violated does it cut in half the max time you can receive in jail?

1 year less time served on that specific charge underlying your probation less "good time"

Is there any way I can get my License cleared? If theres no way of clearing it can I do something to reduce my points and how

You may be eligible to reduction points from a course, but typically CDLs are treated more harshly than non-commercial drivers.

I live in ny state I drive a compony vehicle to ma to work every week should I be paid for my driving time it takes 6 hrs 1 way

Not unless you contracted with your employer to get paid for it. You must really love those Massachusetts trees.

6 mos. from the date of imposition of the ACD, when it ripens into a dismissal.

I will be completing my probation in two months. Will I receive something from the probation dept or do I just stop reporting

Insist on something in writing from the probation department or court that you are satisfactorily discharged from successful probation.