My own wife and kids can say the same thing about me: that I am holding all hostage and that there is a threat that I may win custody in a court....

Is it unethical for an attorney to lie about a former client ,the defense of that client & slander that client in court?

There are not enough facts here to make a cogent response. However, this does remind of many cases I have had which caused me to lock up and ask...

Is living with my husband in his mother's house, it is a 2 family-house, constitutes a marital home?

We are not psychologists and we cannot counsel you on how to better get along with the mother-in-law. As for your legal question, a 'marital'...

Renegotiating temporary maintenance.

Wait a minute. You terminated your lawyer because your fantasy of a high temporary maintenance payment was not made into reality? That is a sure...

My one ex hasn't seen my son in nearly 3 yrs and my other ex hasn't seem my daughter in 6 months want to move out of state

You have no chance of leaving until you retain attorneys for both relocation cases. You'll have to prove that the relocation i in the child's best...

Child remands are not for the faint of heart. While you are trying to establish that there is no imminent danger to your child, the Corporation...

Is my ex obligated to help pay for our son's college? He pays child support and our son is 19. He says he is not obligated.

Your order of support is the source of all your payments due. If the order is silent as to higher education, then he is not obligated to pay.

During dis&inspect, the plaintiff denied filing of criminal complaint against the defendant; how to bring it up to the Court?

It sounds to me that you are the victim of a chase after the red herring. This means a central core is being developed in the case against you...

MY child support case is in a state where neither i or his mother reside, arrears are accruing and i cannot modfy. suggestions ?

There is not enough information here. You may have to dig up which state is currently the source of enforcement and approach that county's...

Besides filing a motion, how to bring a plaintiff's lie to the attention of the judge during contested divorce?

You are out of focus. Lying to the tyrant is a key strategy to win something by investing nothing. This is especially true in any court of law...