Can I file for divorce based on "irretrievable breakdown" if we've been in counseling?

Yes.

If my thirteen year old dose not want to go back to her mothers. must i make her?

If there is a court order giving her mother custody, then yes you must make her. Her mother can call the police to have the child returned and you...

What kind of attorney do I need?

You should start with consulting with a divorce attorney and go from there.

How do I stop or deter an Ex from using frivolous petitioning as a weapon.

If he is really filing frivilous petitions once a month (and not just frivilous to you, but frivilous to the judge), you can request that the judge...

My husband and I are seperated but not divorced. He has med.ins and wants to take me off. Can he legally do that?

If you file for divorce, automatic restraining orders will be issued ordering him not to take you off his insurance.

What are the chances of gaining sole custody of my daughter?

You have de facto sole custody now. If you do not need child support, then you can just leave things as they are now. If you need child support,...

Can a person be served a subpeona to appear in a family court hearing on spousal support?

Your husband's attorney can subpoena your mother. His lawyer can issue the subpoena, it does not need to come from the court, unless certain...

Yes, but you will have to establish paternity first. If he does not sign an acknowledgement of paternity, you will have to file a paternity...

My son's father got health insurance ( family health plus) for him and our son. But i want to take to court for child support?

file a petition or child support. At the first appearance ask the judge to make a temporay award of support and have it go through the support...

Is there any law that can help me make my son's father help me with him? such as take him to school, see him every other weekend

Unfortunately the court cant force someone to be a parent. If you have to get childcare because your son's father won't help, you should at least...