What should I ask them(the best possible outcome) to reduce a cell phone ticket outside of NYC?

A plea to a violation that does not carry any points is the best possible plea deal.

What preemptive steps can I take to avoid suspension of my NYS drivers license due to excessive moving violations points?

step 1 - stop pleading guilty to tickets. step 2 - take a NY certified defensive driving course. step 3 - retain counsel.

What do I do on this case?

Retain a competent traffic ticket attorney.

Extremely unlikely to get suspended.

Is it possible to get lower points or not have my insurance rate go up? Paying the fine is no problem for me.

Definitely possible to get lower points. Hiring a competent traffic ticket attorney gives you the best chance of the best possible plea deal and...

I need to know what to expect in court, and if they will suspend the permit.

It is usually a very bad idea to simply plead guilty. Retain a local competent traffic ticket attorney, show them your tickets, and let them sort...

Would i be wrong to just talk to the A.D.A and ask for a plea deal so i just get fined?

You should confirm your charges because under the circumstances you could have been (and probably still can) charged with far more serious criminal...

Do I have a reasonable argument to dismiss either ticket ?

Who owns the car is irrelevant for moving violation purposes. Your defense to soeeding does not hold water unless the officer testifies that you...

See above

It is 2 points It may affect your insurance. Depends on your driving history, individual carrier, among other factors. This is a forum to answer...

What can I do to reduce the severity of this ticket?

Using a cell phone at a red light is not a clear area of law. Some judges will convict under such circumstances and some will not. Assuming the...