If my car is registered by my wife and I was driving it and my wife got a Someone’s?

Your question is hard to understand. Please reformulate and and ask again.

How to minimize impact of ticket (Speeding 45/30, VTL 1180 0D in NY) on the insurance.

If you're going to retain an attorney then do nothing and just retain the attorney.

Can I fight a ticket if office wrote wrong statute?

Why do you assume he should have written 1225-D? Unfortunately the officer's testimony will not always be consistent with the reality.

Can my sister still drive after receiving an unlicensed operator ticket ? License was we believe suspended ?

Unlicensed can be due to an expired license, not having a license on her, or in fact a suspended license. If the latter she should be worried about...

What should my husband do

Fight it to avoid the points going on your record. An attorney can handle all instead of you and go to court instead of you.

He doesn't show up an initial court date anyway. An attorney can go to court instead of you and handle everything.

Can I beat a speeding ticket

Trying to beat the ticket by arguing that you didn't crash or that other cars were also speeding will unfortunately get you nowhere. An attorney...

I would not be worried. .................

AA speeding ticket 79 on 65

If no previous speeding tickets the maximum fine is $393.

How can I fight a speeding ticket given in another county from where I live?

In NY an attorney can go to court instead of you for traffic tickets. Getting them reduced or dismissed is definitely possible.