Can a person on misdemeanor probation be violated for driving without a license in New York State?

Technically, probably yes but the probation officer has a lot of discretion.

96 in a 55 at 16 years old?

He can get suspended on multiple grounds. This needs to be dealt with delicately and expertly. Best if you contact a local traffic ticket lawyer.

The cop told me to send in my ticket, but if this is my 2nd one and the 1st was reduced to parking, will 2nd be reduced in court

You need to plead not guilty. An attorney can handle all for you and go to court instead of you.

How I can make extention for traffic ticket

Depends on the court and the history of the ticket.

If done properly it can lead to dismissal.

Very bad ticket but an attorney can go to court instead of you and minimize most of the damage.

Why does this not make sense ?

Not normal for an attorney but normal when getting an attorney through a broker.

NYS driver received a speeding ticket in Connecticut for going 45mph on 30mph. Would I get points in either of states?

With New York Class D license it will not appear on regular driving record. For CT you need to ask CT attorney.

How do i take care of parking summons for parking in handicap spot? , have sign just was not up

try going into the court clerk and see if it can get dismissed. otherwise you have to schedule a court date and go before judge.

I received a speeding ticket in Long Beach for going 53 mph in a 30 mph zone. How much would the charges and penalties be?

6 points and possible fines + fines of around $700. This assumes no other violations. An attorney can go to court instead of you and try to beat...