I was labeled HTO in florida but I moved to NY. Will NY allow me obtain a DL since they don’t acknowledge HTO?

If you can get a license in FL without restrictions then you should be able to get a license in NY.

I failed to appear for a pretrial conference for a speeding ticket what are the potential penalties for not appearing ?

Eventual suspension. An attorney can sort this out for you and go to court instead of you.

yes dispute it here https://www1.nyc.gov/site/finance/vehicles/dispute-a-ticket.page

It should be fought. It is not a legal ticket.

officer reschedule a traffic ticket

Very rare to get to 4 reschedules. You may want to get an attorney involved.

What should I do and what should I expect by way of penalty (anything besides monetary fines?)

Explanations don't really amount to much. Technically you are supposed to have a NY license by now. A local traffic ticket attorney can go to court...

3 tixs

If convicted you will end up with 6 points on your NJ license and 8 points on New York record. Staten Island is a very rough place to fight tickets.

How long does it take to receive my bill in mail after getting a ticket?

Usually get it a few weeks after sending in guilty plea. Sounds like a charge with a max fine of $150 + $93 surcharge.

What should I do ?

If you hire an attorney then your attorney can go to court instead of you and try to beat it. An attorney also gives you the best shot at beating...

Failure to yield to a pedestrian ticket. It is 3 points. The fine amount is listed on the ticket. Plead not guilty and bring your video evidence...