I am secondary executrix, i.e., if primary executrix is unable. Can I revoke my status at any time?

Of course you may decline to serve as Executrix - also, you may accept the fiduciary responsibility and choose to be paid in conformity with the...

Wishing to be paid back for my mothers funeral expenses that I paid in NY

You should consult an attorney or the attorney who handled your mother's case.

Can a judgment against only me affect my wife's assets?

If your wife's assets are ONLY under her name and you have no interest in those assets - they will not be garnished by a judgement against ONLY you.

What documents do i need filled out to establish next of kin?

You have to apply for Administration letters in the county where your uncle resided by going to the respective Surrogate Court. Then you may apply...

Do we need a multi-jurisdiction estate planning attorney (US and India) or can an attorney in NJ/NY complete our documents?

Why do people create an estate plan? Because they want to protect the ones they love in case something happens to them. Since you live in the US...

My grandson says he eants to live with me

Your question is unclear - in any case you need the assistance of a family lawyer - the mother of the child has complete custody of the child,...

You have to retain the services of a New York trust administration attorney to guide you in distributing the trust assets between you and your...

What do I have to do to pass my mortgage and property over to my fiance, if I pass away?

If you make a Will - your fiancee might have to fight with your other legal heirs over the distributions of assets. The best way is to create a...

How do I go about closing out an estate when I am executor and my attorney has had everything in her possession?

Since you are the Executor you should have access to all information regarding your mother's probate proceedings. The Letters testamentary are in...

Do both spouses or just one own inherited NY real estate in this case?

Liability for an inherited house lies with the owner and the person who inherited the house is the sole owner even if s/he is married.