Yes, a man may apply for VAWA if you meet the requirements. If you have been abused by your US citizen/LPR spouse or US citizen son/daughter who is...

It may take 30-60 days but may take longer as well.

If your children are over 21 and US citizens, they may petition for you.

You may file a FOIA with ICE requesting the I-9.

It may show up on the online account. However, if it has been over 1.5 months, you may inquire with USCIS.

If you meet the requirements for citizenship, you may file 90 days before your 3 year anniversary as a legal permanent resident.

Consult with an experienced immigration attorney in private to go over your boyfriend’s immigration history and circumstances.

You may correct any errors on the application at your interview. The officer will go over the application with you.

If you meet the requirements for citizenship, you may apply under the 3 year rule.

Contact USCIS immediately to set up an info pass and get the I-551 stamp in your valid unexpired passport.