In new york state how old does a child have to be to pick wich parent they want to live with?

14 is old enough to express an opinion as to custody but the child's opinion will not be the only factor. At age 18 a child can determine where he...

Can a close relative like parents, brother, wife that are not involved in a case serve the prosecutor with a motion?

Related or not, any adult non-party to the action may serve papers. Best of luck!

I BEING SEPARATED FROM MY HUSBAND SINCE 2001 IS THIS A LEGAL DIVORCE IN NEW YORK STATE?

No you are not divorced. Contact a local matrimonial attorney to commence a divorce action on your behalf.

In the eyes of the court what's more important visitaion or working?

There is no right or wrong answer in your situation. It will be a judgment call on your part. If you cannot obtain a comparable job with more...

I need a divorce (my wife is abusive). If I leave before filing, would that jeopardize my parenting time with my son?

Leaving the home would put your custody case in jeopardy. You will still be entitled to visitation with your son absent some extraordinary...

Check with the court but generally bluebacks are not required.

I want to get an order or protection from ex wife for texts and being harassing..can I do this on my own

Your ex wife's conduct may be sufficient to plead Harassment in the second degree.

What can be put in a prenuptial agreement? I have some questionable requests...

You can include some language regarding your fiance's smoking. Treating the smoking "as equivalent to cheating" really is of minimal legal...

How can I change my last name?

In the judgment of divorce, there should be a provision allowing you to return to use of your maiden name. Assuming that there is such a...

Can my husband sue me if I pierce our daughters ears?

If you have it done by a professional in a proper, sterile setting, I doubt that you will suffer any consequences.