I live in Long Island, NY with my wife. She has a 8 yr old son, who legally lives with his father.

File a custody petition in family court. If there's currently a custody order, you'll need to file a modification petition.

QMCSO

That is very standard in QMCSOs. You'll need to contact the insurance provider directly regarding their procedures on reimbursement checks.

I live in NC. I need the deposition of my case which was dismissed in NYC.

A notarized letter to the clerk should be sufficient. Be sure to include the appropriate fee.

If I hire a lawyer to handle my divorce/child support now, will I be entitled to receive back pay from filing 5 yrs. ago?

I'm assuming that your prior case was dismissed because you never went back to court. Assuming that's the case, you will be entitled to child...

Who gets the child support money when the child turns 18?

Based on what you've described, the child may be emancipated. Additional information is required. Best of luck!

In Brooklyn,NY after trial and decision made by judge, how long for judge to sign judgment of divorce, after been filed?

Unfortunately, there's no answer to your question. Some judges will address it quickly. Some will not get around to signing the JoD for a long time.

How can I find my ex and get him to pay?

Contact a Suffolk County process server. They have methods of locating people.

We were married in Poland 10 years ago. We are 6 years in USA (New York) and I want a divorce and my wife do not want divorce.

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We married in Poland 10 years ago. We booth live in USA (NY state). In my opinion we can divorce only in Poland. Am I correct?

NY will have jurisdiction to hear your divorce if you meet any of the following: 1- you and your spouse have resided in this state as husband...

I'm assuming you're referring to opting-out of the CSSA calculations? NY does not have a specific form when parties want to opt out of CSSA. Such...