Better to adjourn court and get representation or go and represent myself ?

Go to court at the first appearance and see if you qualify for assigned counsel. If not, then consider hiring an attorney. The judge will not...

I make 20000my ex makes 100000 how will I have to for cs ? Will the judge make me paid 17 % I cant live as of now 20000

If the support obligation puts you below the poverty line then you will not have to pay 17%. Otherwise, expect to pay the full 17%.

How long does ex have to wait to ask for upward modification

3 years or another change in circumstances

My new wife she has an ex husband with a 19 yr old girl whom is going to college, can the ex husband get me to pay child support

You cannot be obligated to pay child support in this situation. Depending on your situation, you income may be imputed to your wife when the court...

Harassment

You may need to get an order of protection from the criminal courts. Based on your description, it doesn't appear that you can obtain an order of...

Can this money be taken in family court?

You need to disclose all of the income you mentioned above. At hearing you can request that the court not include some portions of the above as...

As long as you are not on the eve of trial, the court should let you retain a new attorney.

How far back does child support calculations go by?

You will need to disclose all of the income discussed. The support will be retroactive to the day that you filed the petition.

I was married for 11 years and in our divorce agreement I am entitled to 25% of his pension. He retired last year.

Technically, you still have the right to your share of the pension but you should seek to enforce it ASAP. Contact your lawyer about having the...

How will court determine child support?

The starting point is 25% (for 2 kids) of your 2013 income. If you're out of work, the court can base our support on the prior income.