What's a max. possible sentance for dis. Conduct?

15 days jail. This charge typically results in a fine or a CD.

What's going to happen in regards to this shoplifting?

A good attorney should get the case adjourned in contemplation of dismissal.

Is accepting a bribe treated the same way as the person offering the bribe? Are they both crimes?

Bribe receiving is also a crime. Contact your local District Attorneys office to report this crime if it is a public servant.

Regarding arrest for license suspension

You should go to DMV and ask for a copy of your abstract/ driving record. Make sure that is the only thing suspending your license. Pay whatever...

The sentence on the second pending DWI is a maximum of 1 1/3 - 4 years in prison. Though any local sentence should merge, there is the potential...

Can I move an ACD for early dismissal for employment purposes?

Correct, the Da must consent to the advancement. Speak to your attorney.

D.A.T for a 265.01 02 . Have no record should I be worried? Will an A.C.D request work?

The charge is a Class A misdemeanor, so your maximum punishment is one year in jail. Without a criminal record, a non criminal disposition or ACD...

Obstruction?

She should hire an attorney at this point and stop speaking to the police. Let the attorney speak to them.

Can i get off parole in dutchess county NY, early. I have had no police contact since my release. My charge was non violent.

Early release from parole is unlikely. Especially if you are done in November.

Change guilty plea to not guilty? I have plead guilty to a crime I didn't commit as my attorney said it would be best for me.

You could file a motion to withdraw your plea. Speak to your attorney about that motion.