Can I move? How can I do this right? Do I have to go to court, can I just leave?

You need to consult with an attorney. You would have to file a relocation petition through the court before you move otherwise you risk losing...

How can I change my 1 year Olds last name?

You need to seek a name change through the court. You should contact an attorney.

Does NY state law allow me to remove my name from my wife's son who has born during our marriage? if yes, how can I do it ?

The child is a child of the marriage and it is hard to overcome that presumption. You should contact an attorney to navigate you through this...

Do we need a lawyer for a prenup or can we just sign a paper that says "Assets/Liabilities under my name will always remain

YES! Both parties should have an attorney to represent your interest and rights. Consult with an attorney.

So the Magistrate tells me she wont provide legal aide until i submit my financials.

You have to give your financial information. Otherwise hire an attorney.

Is there a statue of limitation on child support and what should I do next?

You need an attorney. You have to enforce the agreement and perhaps seek contempt but it's hard to say with the information provided.

How can I be a part of my daughters life?

You need to establish paternity through the court. After paternity is established you can seek visitation. You should contact an attorney.

Does an unwed father have the right to demand a DNA test in Queens, NY, even if he is the petitioner, and the mother agrees?

You should go for the test to be sure. If the child is yours you will be obligated to pay child support.

Will I be liable to pay child-support in case my daughter was born outside US?

There is a lot of information missing here. You should contact an attorney. Your wife would have to start a divorce action or a support...

NY courts website has a child support calculator you can use, however your annual salary alone is over the support guidelines so you may have to...