Hello: Many states, like NY, do keep a database. Or you can hire someone to search in a particular state.

Hello: In court, bring up landlord's refusal to cooperate with ERAP with documentation and proof.

Hello: First, it is possible you are not divorced. Second, speak to your ex and ask. Third, hire someone, attorney or otherwise, to...

Hello: Retain counsel or pro se for an appeal.

Hello: Legally, these papers, assets, etc. belong to his estate. if the estate has an executor or administrator, the documents, etc. go to that...

Hello: It does sound like you are being misclassified.

Hello: Just contact ERAP reps, advise of situation, have them confirm it to you in writing if possible,

Hello: Either you asked this question before or another employee is in the same situation: IMHO, this is for small claims court.

Hello: IMHO, invest in a consultation with an attorney to review the co-op plan, by-laws, etc. as well as your probate papers.

Hello: Do you have an attorney? Let the attorney deal with this. If you don't, invest in one. Otherwise, if you are doing this pro se, you might...